What do I mean by an inclusive, informed and safe approach to Managing Challenging Interactions?
- Shiv Martin
- Oct 4, 2024
- 5 min read
Updated: Aug 13
Inclusive, Safe, and Informed Strategies for Managing Challenging Complainants in Mediation, Conciliation, and Complaint Handling
Inclusive, Safe, and Informed Approaches to Managing Challenging Complainants
Managing challenging, querulous, and persistent complainants in public service and dispute resolution roles is one of the most demanding tasks faced by mediators, conciliators, and complaints managers. It’s more than just navigating the law or having tough conversations, it requires a thoughtful, inclusive approach that considers the diverse needs of those involved, while also safeguarding the health and wellbeing of the staff handling these cases.
Through my work as a mediator, conciliator and trainer, I’ve learned that adopting strategies grounded in inclusivity and safety, for all concerned, is essential for effectively managing these complex situations.
Taking an Inclusive Approach to Managing Challenging Interactions
An inclusive approach recognises that:
Complainants come from diverse backgrounds with differing needs, including psychosocial disabilities.
Many querulous complainants feel misunderstood or marginalised, fuelling persistence in seeking often unattainable resolutions.
Key inclusivity strategies:
Foster an environment where all voices are heard - within defined limits.
Listen carefully to concerns while maintaining fairness.
Set boundaries early while being empathetic to manage expectations and preserve the integrity of the process.
In my work with public service organisations, I’ve seen the benefits of setting boundaries early while still being empathetic. It allows us to manage expectations and helps complainants understand what can and can’t be achieved within the complaints process. This approach preserves the integrity of the process while ensuring that complainants feel genuinely engaged.
Taking an Informed Approach
One of the key elements that informs my approach to managing challenging complainants is staying up to date with the latest research in law, psychology, and neuroscience. Understanding the legal frameworks that govern complaints processes, coupled with insights from psychology about human behaviour and mental health, enables me to navigate complex cases more effectively. Additionally, neuroscience research offers valuable perspectives on how emotions, stress, and communication dynamics influence interactions with querulous complainants.
This interdisciplinary approach helps ensure that my strategies are not only grounded in practical experience but also supported by the most current thinking in these fields, allowing me to deliver informed, holistic solutions in my work.
In my work managing challenging complainants, I place great importance on consulting a wide variety of resources. It's essential to draw not only from scientific research and legal theory but also from the lived experiences of those who have navigated these situations firsthand. This includes learning from legal and dispute resolution practitioners who are actively working in the field, as well as understanding the perspectives and strategies they use. Legal guidance, too, plays a critical role in ensuring compliance and fairness throughout the process. By blending these diverse sources of knowledge - lived experience, professional practice, and scientific research, I can create more comprehensive and effective approaches to managing difficult complainants, ensuring that both the complainant's needs and the system’s integrity are respected.
Workplace Health and Safety Considerations
It’s important not to overlook the toll these cases can take on the staff who are dealing with challenging complainants. Querulous and persistent behaviour can:
Exhaust staff
Increase burnout and disengagement
Drive higher turnover, especially in resource-stretched environments
Protective measures include:
Clear WHS policies for managing high-conflict interactions
Access to mental health support, debriefing, and resilience training
Tools for early identification of challenging behaviour
Early Identification and Setting Boundaries
Spotting the signs of challenging behaviour early is crucial. Querulous complainants typically present patterns of repetitive complaints, and they often refuse to accept previous outcomes. By recognising these behaviours during the initial intake process, we can manage expectations early and provide clear communication about the boundaries of the complaints process.
In a recent case I worked on, we identified querulous behaviour early and implemented a structured intake process that involved setting clear limits on what the complaints process could achieve. This included providing a single point of contact to reduce frustration and offering mediation to give the complainant a sense of being heard in a neutral environment. While the individual continued to file complaints, the intensity and frequency of their filings decreased significantly, and the process was easier to manage for the staff involved.
The Role of Support and Training
Managers and staff need adequate training and resources to handle difficult cases effectively. This includes education on how to communicate with complainants, set boundaries, and manage expectations. Equally important is providing support for staff through counselling services, peer support networks, and regular debriefings. These resources help to manage the stress associated with difficult cases and ensure that staff wellbeing remains a priority. At Shiv Martin Consulting, we deliver tailored workshops for complaint handlers, mediators, and conciliators on these exact skills.
My Final Thoughts
Managing challenging complainants requires:
An inclusive approach that respects diversity and ensures fairness
An informed strategy grounded in law, psychology, and neuroscience
Safety measures that protect staff wellbeing and resilience
By ensuring that everyone involved is equipped with the tools they need, we can not only manage these cases more effectively but also foster a workplace environment that prioritises respect, fairness, and resilience.
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FAQs
How do you deal with a difficult complainant? Set clear boundaries, manage expectations early, and ensure your team has the training and support to respond effectively.
What is a querulous complainant? A querulous complainant persistently pursues grievances, often refusing to accept outcomes and repeatedly lodging complaints.
How can workplace complaint handlers reduce burnout? By implementing WHS protections, providing mental health support, and offering specialist training on managing high-conflict interactions.
What is an inclusive approach to complaints handling? An inclusive approach ensures processes are accessible, fair, and respectful of diverse needs, including those with hidden disabilities or psychosocial challenges.
Why is training important for managing challenging complainants?
Training equips staff with the skills to communicate effectively, set boundaries, and manage conflict without escalating situations.
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Shiv Martin is a nationally accredited mediator, practicing solicitor, conciliator, decision-maker, and certified vocational trainer. With extensive experience in complex dispute resolution, stakeholder engagement, and team building across business, community, and governmental sectors, Shiv brings over a decade of unique and diverse expertise in Law, Management, Vocational Education, and Mediation.