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It's the Principle! How Values-Based Coaching and the SCARF Framework Transform Workplace Conflict
Workplace conflict often isn’t about the issue, it’s about the principle. This article explores how values-based coaching questions and the SCARF framework help leaders and HR professionals reduce defensiveness, surface what’s really at stake, and resolve conflict more effectively.
3 days ago


"Agree to Disagree” in Workplace, Business and Regulatory Disputes: Why It’s Often Not Enough
“Agree to disagree” may reduce tension in the moment, but in workplace, business and regulatory disputes it often creates risk. This article explores why clarity, evidence and procedural fairness matter more than surface harmony, particularly in ombudsman and statutory environments.
Feb 16


Motivating Change in Workplace Disputes
Motivational interviewing is a powerful skill in mediation, complaints handling, and regulatory dispute resolution. Learn how it supports clarity, agency, and ethical outcomes in workplace conflict, Ombudsman processes, and high-emotion disputes.
Feb 11


Moving from Rigid to Flexible Thinking to Resolve Business, Workplace and Partnership Conflicts
Rigid, black-and-white thinking is one of the biggest barriers to resolving business, workplace and partnership disputes. Drawing on mediation practice, neuroscience and decision-making research, this article explains how flexible thinking reduces escalation, improves negotiation outcomes and supports sustainable conflict resolution in professional settings.
Feb 4


Timewasters in Dispute Resolution Systems
A small number of complaints often consume disproportionate time and emotional labour in dispute resolution systems. Drawing on research and practitioner insight, this article explores how misdirected and high-demand matters reveal gaps in system design, procedural clarity and practitioner support, and what conciliation frameworks need to remain fair, humane and sustainable.
Jan 29


Conciliation in 2026: Insights from the Field and Future Directions
Conciliation is a cornerstone of regulatory and Ombudsman dispute resolution, yet it is often misunderstood in practice. Drawing on training experience across statutory bodies, this article explores where conciliation is heading in 2026, including role clarity, ethical confidence, system pressures and the skills practitioners need to remain effective, fair and sustainable.
Jan 16


It’s Okay to Be in Conflict: Why Strong Leaders Embrace Difficult Conversations
Conflict is a normal part of high-performing workplaces. This article explains why leaders should not fear conflict, how business and corporate mediation helps teams move forward, and why 2026 is the perfect time to reset communication and strengthen relationships.
Jan 12


How to Know When It’s Time to Quit a job (and How to Quit Well)
Deciding whether to quit a job is rarely straightforward. Drawing on workplace mediation and conflict resolution, this guide explains when it’s time to leave and how to quit well, with clarity, dignity, and respect for future relationships.
Jan 5


Beyond Compliance: The Psychology of Challenging Conversations in Complaints Handling
Complaints handling isn’t just about compliance, it’s about psychology. Small language choices can transform frustration into trust. Explore how the CURE framework, neuroscience, and practical strategies help complaints teams manage difficult conversations with clarity, empathy, and confidence.
Dec 22, 2025


Mediation in the Hybrid Workplace: Adapting Old Skills to New Challenges
Hybrid workplaces bring flexibility but also unique conflict challenges. From misinterpreted emails to Zoom fatigue, leaders need new approaches to old problems. Mediation skills; adapted for online and blended teams, help prevent disputes, strengthen trust, and create a healthier workplace culture.
Dec 22, 2025


Don’t forget to floss: what happens after mediation really matters
Mediation is not a quick fix - it’s a reset. What happens after mediation determines whether agreements hold or old patterns return. This article explores why mediation aftercare, clear follow-up conversations, accountability, and emotional awareness are essential for sustainable workplace conflict resolution.
Dec 19, 2025


Mediation Is Not a Regulatory Tool, But Conciliation Can Be
Across Ombudsman, tribunal, and regulatory bodies, mediation is frequently mislabelled as a regulatory tool, creating confusion, role drift, and unrealistic expectations. This article explains why mediation does not sit comfortably within regulatory systems, why conciliation does, and how accurate process definition strengthens fairness, trust, and compliance in dispute resolution practice.
Dec 18, 2025
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