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How to De-escalate Challenging Calls?
Handling challenging phone calls is one of the toughest parts of conflict work. This guide outlines evidence-based de-escalation strategies, from active listening and empathy to setting boundaries and documenting conversations. Ideal for complaints teams, HR managers, and leaders committed to safer, more professional interactions.
Mar 317 min read


How to Manage Microaggressions at Work - Early Intervention for Workplace Disputes
Microaggressions at work can feel small in the moment but cause lasting damage when left unaddressed. This article explores why people stay silent, how unresolved microaggressions escalate into workplace conflict, and how early intervention, mediation, and conflict resolution skills can protect team culture and psychological safety.
Mar 256 min read


Early Resolution & Conciliation Professionals: Why This Symposium Matters for Your Team
This symposium brings together Ombudsman, tribunal, commission and regulatory dispute resolution professionals to explore the real pressures, emerging challenges and practical opportunities in early resolution and conciliation practice. If your team works in statutory dispute resolution, this event is designed for your context.
Mar 205 min read


Mediate, Investigate, Litigate, or Leave It Alone?
Explore how to confidently choose between mediation, investigation, litigation, or informal action when managing workplace complaints. Learn what works, when, and why.
Mar 106 min read


Why Conciliation Training Makes Better Lawyers (Even If You Never Plan to Conciliate)
Conciliation training doesn’t just prepare you to facilitate disputes. It strengthens advocacy, negotiation, emotional intelligence and decision-making. In an era where AI can draft and research, human conciliation skills are becoming a lawyer’s most valuable asset.
Mar 45 min read


It's the Principle! How Values-Based Coaching and the SCARF Framework Transform Workplace Conflict
Workplace conflict often isn’t about the issue, it’s about the principle. This article explores how values-based coaching questions and the SCARF framework help leaders and HR professionals reduce defensiveness, surface what’s really at stake, and resolve conflict more effectively.
Feb 257 min read


"Agree to Disagree” in Workplace, Business and Regulatory Disputes: Why It’s Often Not Enough
“Agree to disagree” may reduce tension in the moment, but in workplace, business and regulatory disputes it often creates risk. This article explores why clarity, evidence and procedural fairness matter more than surface harmony, particularly in ombudsman and statutory environments.
Feb 167 min read


Motivating Change in Workplace Disputes
Motivational interviewing is a powerful skill in mediation, complaints handling, and regulatory dispute resolution. Learn how it supports clarity, agency, and ethical outcomes in workplace conflict, Ombudsman processes, and high-emotion disputes.
Feb 116 min read


Moving from Rigid to Flexible Thinking to Resolve Business, Workplace and Partnership Conflicts
Rigid, black-and-white thinking is one of the biggest barriers to resolving business, workplace and partnership disputes. Drawing on mediation practice, neuroscience and decision-making research, this article explains how flexible thinking reduces escalation, improves negotiation outcomes and supports sustainable conflict resolution in professional settings.
Feb 45 min read


Timewasters in Dispute Resolution Systems
A small number of complaints often consume disproportionate time and emotional labour in dispute resolution systems. Drawing on research and practitioner insight, this article explores how misdirected and high-demand matters reveal gaps in system design, procedural clarity and practitioner support, and what conciliation frameworks need to remain fair, humane and sustainable.
Jan 296 min read


Conciliation in 2026: Insights from the Field and Future Directions
Conciliation is a cornerstone of regulatory and Ombudsman dispute resolution, yet it is often misunderstood in practice. Drawing on training experience across statutory bodies, this article explores where conciliation is heading in 2026, including role clarity, ethical confidence, system pressures and the skills practitioners need to remain effective, fair and sustainable.
Jan 165 min read


It’s Okay to Be in Conflict: Why Strong Leaders Embrace Difficult Conversations
Conflict is a normal part of high-performing workplaces. This article explains why leaders should not fear conflict, how business and corporate mediation helps teams move forward, and why 2026 is the perfect time to reset communication and strengthen relationships.
Jan 124 min read
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